Hey there, future spouse of an actor! Are you ready for the ride of your life? Because marrying an actor comes with a whole set of challenges that not everyone is cut out for.
Don’t believe me? Well, let me enlighten you with these 30 disadvantages.
1. They’re always busy
You’ll have to get used to scheduling dates and vacations around their shooting schedules.
2. You’ll never be their top priority
Their career will always come first, which means they might not always be able to make it to your important events.
3. You’ll have to deal with paparazzi
If your partner is famous, you’ll constantly be followed by photographers and reporters.
4. You’ll have to share them with their fans
Your significant other’s fans will always be vying for their attention, and sometimes it can feel like they care more about their fans than you.
5. They might have on-screen romances
This one speaks for itself – watching your partner kiss someone else on screen isn’t easy.
6. Their job requires them to be away from home often
You’ll need to learn how to spend time apart while they’re filming or performing in different locations.
7. You might become the subject of rumors
The media loves a good scandal, so don’t be surprised if false rumors start circulating about your relationship.
8. You’ll have to attend lots of events and award shows
If your partner is nominated or presenting at an award show, you’ll need to be there to support them.
9. They might constantly be in the spotlight
If your partner is a famous actor, they’ll always be in the public eye – and so will you.
10. You’ll have to share them with their craft
Your partner might get lost in their work and forget about other important things in their life.
11. You might have to move around a lot
Filming locations change frequently, so you might have to move around a lot if you want to stay together.
12. They might not make as much money as you think
Hollywood isn’t always lucrative, and many actors struggle financially.
13. Their job can be emotionally taxing
Acting requires a lot of emotional energy, which can affect your partner’s mood outside of work too.
14. You’ll have to deal with their insecurities
The entertainment industry can be cutthroat, and your partner will likely face rejection and criticism often.
15. They might have to do things they’re uncomfortable with for a role
This could include doing nudity or performing stunts that put them in danger.
16. Your privacy will be compromised
The paparazzi won’t hesitate to invade your personal space for a good photo op.
17. You’ll have to deal with obsessive fans
Your partner’s fans might cross boundaries and become obsessive or even dangerous.
18. Your relationship will always be under scrutiny
The media will pick apart every aspect of your relationship, making it hard to keep things private.
19. They might work long hours
Filming can take up to 12 or more hours a day, which means you’ll have less time together.
20. You’ll have to deal with their ego
The entertainment industry can inflate one’s ego, and your partner might become arrogant or self-centered.
21. You’ll need thick skin
Criticism is a part of the job, and you’ll have to learn how to handle negative comments about your partner’s work and even appearance.
22. You might feel like you’re in competition with their career
You might feel like your partner’s career takes precedence over your own goals and dreams.
23. You’ll have to be supportive when they don’t get the role they wanted
Your partner will likely face rejection often – sometimes for roles they really wanted – and you’ll need to be there for them emotionally.
24. Your plans might change last minute due to their schedule
You might make plans only for them to be canceled because of a sudden audition or filming schedule change.
25. They might struggle with addiction or mental health issues
The stress of the industry can take a toll on an actor’s mental health, leading some down a path of addiction or other mental health struggles.
26. Their job requires them to constantly be “on”
Your partner will always need to be “on” – ready for interviews, red carpets, and other public events where they’re expected to look their best.
27. You’ll need to be okay with them kissing other people
On-screen romance is a big part of acting, and your partner might have to kiss or perform intimate scenes with other actors.
28. You’ll be constantly compared to their celebrity exes
If your partner has dated famous celebrities before you, you’ll likely be compared to them in the media and by fans.
29. Your social life will revolve around the entertainment industry
You’ll likely spend a lot of time surrounded by actors and people in the entertainment industry, whether at events or just through your partner’s work.
30. You might feel like you’re not enough for them
The entertainment industry can be superficial, and it’s easy to feel like you don’t measure up when compared to the glamorous world your partner works in.
So there you have it – 30 disadvantages of marrying an actor. But hey, if you love your partner enough, these challenges can be overcome. And who knows – maybe they’ll even make for some great stories down the line!
